Don't Hover
Because homeowners are living on the premises during most remodels, they often don't realize what a distraction they are when they're watching over the workers' shoulders. Find out what the contractor's ground rules are and let him and the subs do their jobs. Remember that everyone's presence in your living space is a source of stress on both sides. It's like building a car with the driver already in the seat.
Below are some additional links to helpful information
Paying For Your Remodeling Project in San Diego
Communication with the remodeling company
Speak up, communicate, clarify!
The Pre-Construction Home Renovation Meeting
Timing and Schedules, its sunny in San Diego
Delays and Frustration, how to work it out
Preventing the Home Remodeling Fever
If you hate the thought of remodeling because you can't stand the chaos, here are some coping tips.
Remodeling is traumatic. How to handle the stress without blowing up.
Chillin' - remember this is California...Relax
Test Your Remodeling Personality Type

